It's not a matter of desire. Every time somebody asks me to do something and "yes" comes out of my mouth, I really do want and mean to say "no."
But I can't.
So, like any person who is trying to be frugal with her time, I am working on it.
This morning when my wonderful husband informed me that at some point today I would more than likely be volunteered for a whole slew of things against my will, I said "no, no, and no thank you!"
But when someone called yesterday and asked if I would make a desert for a gathering Wednesday evening ... I said "yes."
(Just between us I "made" it by making a trip to Costco. Mmmm. Costco pie!).
All of this just goes back to the "best use of time" bit that we've been talking about now for quite awhile. If volunteering gets you towards your goals in life, it's good. If it doesn't, it isn't. ... I must practice more "no."